Please help: Your opinion?
My family is going to Japan next Tuesday for a week except me… for now.
I’m not sure whether I should go along.
I want to stay home and study because I will be having my A Levels next year (somewhat like AP and IB), and I haven’t been studying much this year as I dropped out of school for half a year due to some personal problems.
If I do not go on a vacation, I could stay home and study and go for my weekly therapy (maybe two times next week). But if I go on a vacation, my mother said that I could still bring my books along and stay in the hotel room and study on my own. But the thing is that I hate traveling, I have tinnitus I hate the high pressure in the plane and the noise, and my anxiety increases when I am in a foreign country, the unfamiliarity. The thing is though, if I do not go, my mother will be upset.
I am not the type of teenager to likes to have fun and such. I am the introvert, thinking type. I hate going out, shopping and crowds.
What are your thoughts?
Thank you.
I have been to Japan more than four times.
2005, 2006, 2008 and previously too, if I am not mistaken.
My exam is important, it is my final pathway to the University.
Elizabeth: But my mom would be very upset?
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Sometimes the best vacation is to be alone. I would choose to stay home, why bother yourself with anxiety & all of that if you don’t have to. Just stay home study & relax.
I say go to Japan its a boss country and Iife experience is worth more than test resuIts
Hmm, well I think you should do what’s best for you. If traveling causes you that much anxiety, then perhaps it’s best you stay home and study. Plus, if you stay home you can continue going to therapy.
Just be alone.
I feel best too alone at times.
Drop me a mail we could hook up.
The FUNNY thing is that my folks are going to JAPAN too next week.
How freaky is that. !
Best Answer?
It is better to go to travel with family and try to come out of anxiety of high pressure , crowd, and foreign countries and experiencing new things
Do not go if U do not want to.
If U already know U want peace and quiet, then stay home and enjoy the solitude. U can enjoy their photos later, or watch a travel-log
Stay at home and have peace in your heart as well as study time.