Please help: your opinion?
My family is going to Japan next Tuesday for a week except me… for now.
I’m not sure whether I should go along.
I want to stay home and study because I will be having my A Levels next year (somewhat like AP and IB), and I haven’t been studying much this year as I dropped out of school for half a year due to some personal problems.
If I do not go on a vacation, I could stay home and study and go for my weekly therapy (maybe two times next week). But if I go on a vacation, my mother said that I could still bring my books along and stay in the hotel room and study on my own. But the thing is that I hate traveling, I have tinnitus I hate the high pressure in the plane and the noise, and my anxiety increases when I am in a foreign country, the unfamiliarity. The thing is though, if I do not go, my mother will be upset.
I am not the type of teenager to likes to have fun and such. I am the introvert, thinking type. I hate going out, shopping and crowds.
What are your thoughts?
Thank you.
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If u dont like to go overseas then dont go even if ur mom will be upset. besides if ur mother loves u then she will understand you…and if u choose to go with them and study in a hotel,i think u will not be able to concentrate coz ur anxiety increases when ur in a foreign country Hope this helps!
don’t worry about it ur mother will understand
I think that if this trip is not going to be in the city area…i.e. Tokyo
& there’s not going be a huge crowd & it’s mainly sightseeing & stuff, you might want to give yourself a breather & take the trip as long as you won’t be too stressed out. If you haven’t been to Japan, it will be an experience. Besides, you are only going to take your A’s next year, so cut yourself some slack. You deserve some fun too!